Giving
Acknowledgments Every Day
by
Roz Turner, founder of Roz Turner & Associates

In today’s challenging business environment, with rampant layoffs
and cut budgets, your employees are being asked to do more and more. What is one thing
that you can do that doesn’t cost anything and can make all of the difference to your employees?
The answer is: Acknowledge your people for what they are doing right!
It is
easy to look around and find what
people aren’t doing right. That’s
often where our attention goes. But
what about when someone is doing
something well. Often these things
go unnoticed and unrewarded.
In
our consulting practice, our clients
sometimes say things like, “I need
to tell Suzie Smith what a good job
she did on the XYZ project.” But
then when we asked them, “Did you
acknowledge Suzie for that ZYZ
project?” They say, “I was so busy
or out of town and I didn’t get the
chance to tell her.”
Acknowledgment works best when given
close to the time of the event.
Giving acknowledgment works the best
when you notice something someone is
doing and you give that person
feedback soon after you notice it.
It has the most impact when the work
that the employee did is “fresh” in
both of your minds.
Personal face to face acknowledgment
is the best gift.
I
remember early in my career when I
was the Director of Investor
Relations for a large bank holding
company. In that position, I had
the responsibility of writing all of
the speeches for the CEO and
chairman of the board. At that time
the CEO was also the chairman of one
of the most prestigious banking
organizations in the US and I was
his speechwriter.
This
situation occurred about 20 years
ago, when CEO’s pretty much remained
in their “ivory towers” and if you
wanted to speak with them you met
them in their office suites. One
day, I was in my office, when the
CEO came to visit me, having walked
across the entire office floor to
find me. In his hand was a piece of
paper. Before he got to my office,
one of my colleagues gave me the
“heads up” that he was on his way
over and said something like, “You
must be in big trouble. The CEO is
on his way to your office.”
A lot
of thoughts went through my mind as
I tried to figure out, what did I do
wrong? When the CEO got to my
office, he actually sat down across
from my desk and said, “Roz, I just
wanted to come by and see you
personally. That last speech that
you wrote for me was the best one
ever. I know you had a tight
deadline and worked after hours to
complete it. Plus it was really
helpful that you coached me on how
to deliver it. I wrote a written
letter to you about it. (He handed
me the letter.) But rather than put
it in your in-box, I decided to come
to your office to hand deliver it.”
That
feedback made my day and I still
have the letter some 20 years later!
In this day and age of e-mail, cell
phones and text messaging, face to
face acknowledgement is a rare gift
but one that you as a leader can
find time to give.
Don’t
talk about the employee – talk
directly to the employee!
Sometimes, leaders/managers really
try to deliver face to face
acknowledgment, but still miss the
boat in terms of how they go about
it. In team or group meetings, the
leader or manager, will say
something like, “I really want to
acknowledge Sam for the great job he
did on the Bing Bong project.” Then
the leader will go on to say
something like, “Sam did a great job
getting the product out the door!”
without ever making eye contact or
addressing Sam directly.
That
same acknowledgment would be a lot
more powerful, if the leader:
-
Addresses Sam
directly:
Look directly at Sam and say
something like, “Sam, I really
want to acknowledge you for the
wonderful job you did getting
the Bing Bong product out the
door.”
-
Gives specific
examples of the performance and
mentions “personal qualities”
that contributed to successful
performance: “Sam,
you really were resourceful and
tenacious in how you got this
product completed. I know that
you had difficulty getting all
of the materials we needed to
manufacture the Bing Bong, but
you held in there and pursued
every avenue until you found a
source that would work for us. I
know you put in long hours and I
want you to know that we really
appreciate your dedication.”
-
Mentions
resulting benefits to the
department, company, others and
you.
“Sam, because of
your hard work, this product
launch was one of our best ones
ever and we have a much better
chance of hitting our revenue
targets for the year.”
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Summary: Try it out for yourself.
Make
it a daily habit to acknowledge
others for their contributions.
Studies have shown that what
employees what more than even
additional pay – is to know that
what they are doing makes a
difference. As a manager or leader,
you have the opportunity every day,
to let people know of the difference
they are making. Use the steps
outlined above and get started
today!
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Improving Performance by Giving
Effective Feedback
by
Roz Turner, founder of Roz Turner & Associates

Especially in today’s difficult and
challenging business environment,
with lay-offs and a slimmed down
staff, it’s important that each
employee gets ongoing on-the-job
feedback. Employees need to know
what they are doing well and what
they need to improve. That means
observing your staff in action and
communicating often – not just
during the annual performance
review.
Some
basics for giving feedback
At
heart, giving feedback needs to come
from your commitment to another’s
development, not from the place of
being critical. If you approach
feedback from this place, then you
and your employee will benefit from
the feedback process. Your
intentions need to include:
-
Staying open to become aware of
your employees perspective or
point of view.
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Helping your employee to better
understand his/her strengths and
development needs.
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Giving useful feedback and
keeping your employee’s self
esteem intact.
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Creating a sense of partnership
with your employee.
Why
there’s not enough feedback
As a
manager or leader, you probably
already know how important giving
and getting feedback can be. Yet in
our consulting practice, we find
time and time again that managers
and leaders fail to give effective
feedback. And a lack of feedback
can result in lower productivity and
overall performance. Remember that
when people don’t receive feedback –
they “interpret” that what they are
doing – or not doing – must be
working out okay. Then they are
surprised when the finally get the
feedback that they need to change!
So
why aren’t more managers and leaders
providing consistent feedback? In
our experience, most managers and
leaders say “I know I needed to tell
John or Susan about the problems
with XYZ, but I just haven’t had the
time to sit down and have a face to
face conversation with him/her.”
We know managers and leaders are
busier than ever before, but talking
with your employees about their
performance is part of your job –
not “extra”! We think the real
reason that there isn’t more
feedback is that managers and
leaders are just uncomfortable
giving it.
Some
possible reasons why people are
uncomfortable giving feedback:
-
Let’s face it. You may want to
be a “nice guy/gal” manager –
meaning you may not really want
to be straight and say what
needs to be said, because you
want your employees to like you.
-
Another reason might be you can
see what the person is not doing
well, but you don’t know exactly
how to “fix” it. Please
remember that the goal is not to
“fix” anyone, but by sharing
what you see, you and the
employee can be in a dialogue
about possible solutions.
-
You might also be afraid of the
reaction you will get from your
employees when you tell them
your observations. Though in a
position of leadership, many
people do not like conflict and
perceive that giving feedback
will lead to conflict. Some
leaders erroneously believe that
“it’s not that big a deal” and
“maybe if I don’t say anything
my employee will figure it out
for him/herself.” That’s why so
many situations that start out
small end up as big problems.
How
to overcome the challenge and give
effective feedback
-
First, don’t give feedback on
the fly. Take the time to
really think about what you
would like the employee to
“start, stop or continue” doing.
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Next, work on “sticking to the
facts” and your observations.
If you need to give feedback
regarding interactions or
performance that you haven’t
directly observed yourself, be
sure to fully understand the
situation before you give the
feedback.
-
Clearly understand the impact
that the employee’s behavior
and/or performance is having on
the organization and the impact
that it could have on the
employee’s career.
-
Finally, follow the 5 steps
outlined below.
5
Steps for Giving Feedback:
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Focus on
behavior.
Be specific.
Describe behavior in concise and
observable terms. Use behavior
descriptions that create a clear
picture of the issues. Avoid
generalities.
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Describe the
impact.
Explain the
tangible effects of that
behavior being addressed.
-
State the
expectations.
Clearly state the
behavior or actions you expect.
-
Create an Action
Plan.
Involve the employee in creating
an Action Plan and ask for their
commitment to this plan.
-
Follow-up and
reinforcement.
Be sure to take
the time to follow-up
with the employee to reinforce
your expectations and
acknowledge their results
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Summary
If
you take the time to give honest,
developmental feedback on a regular
basis you can help your employees to
become the best they can be and
avoid having situations explode into
bigger problems down the road.
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Asking for Feedback
by
Roz Turner, founder of Roz Turner & Associates

How
well do you know how you are
perceived as a manager and/or a
leader? You might think you are
doing well as a manager or leader
but all of us have “blind spots”
about our behavior and its impact on
others. Especially in these
challenging economic times, while
you are doing more with less staff,
you want to be sure you and your
staff are in alignment. It is
especially important that you know
how you are perceived – what you are
doing well and what you could be
doing better as a manager and
leader.
If
you have spinach in your teeth
wouldn’t you rather know?
Think
of it this way. Let’s say you had a
spinach salad for lunch and ended up
with it in your teeth but were
totally unaware of it. How would
you like it if every one around you
saw that you had spinach in your
teeth but didn’t say anything about
it? More than likely, you would
feel embarrassed and unhappy that
someone didn’t just tell you.
In
the world of work, if you’re the
manager/leader then your employees
may be hesitant to tell you how
you’re doing – unless you ask.
If
you just take the time to ask, then
your employees will give you their
perspective and feel good about
being asked. Even then, some
employees could feel uncomfortable
giving their boss feedback, so
that’s why in our consulting
practice we conduct 360 degree
feedback assessments that are
anonymous and confidential.
If
you’re willing to engage in a 360
degree assessment, you can learn a
lot about what you are doing well
and where you can improve. An
assessment can also help you to see
recurrent themes and patterns in
your behavior. What do your
employees acknowledge that you
consistently do well? What
consistently shows up as a problem
for others on your team?
Armed
with an open mind and this kind of
information, you can become more
aware of “the spinach in your teeth”
– perhaps behaviors that you
“assumed” were not getting in your
way, but in fact, are.
Some
possible areas for exploration:
Whether you do a formal 360
assessment, or just take the time to
informally ask your employees how
you are doing as a manager or a
leader, here are some areas to
explore:
-
Your leadership and
communication style
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Your ability to lead a team
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Your ability to manage and
communicate change
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Your ability to give feedback
and acknowledgment
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Your problem-solving skills
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Your ability to manage multiple
priorities
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Your ability to effectively
resolve conflicts
-
Your visioning and strategic
planning capability
Start
with a self-assessment
How
do you think you’re doing in the
areas mentioned above? Why not take
the time to rate yourself and then
ask your employees what they think.
Then you can gauge how close your
perceptions are compared to your
employees and find ways to fill in
the gaps.
When
we do 360 degree assessments,
managers/leaders are often “taken
back” by how different their
perceptions are from their
employees. Sometimes
leaders/managers are harder on
themselves than their employees
are. But often, their employees
point out “blind spots” that the
manager/leader was totally unaware
of as a problem.
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Summary
Yes,
we know managers and leaders today
are being asked to work at what
seems like the speed of light and
take on more challenges with fewer
resources. Asking for feedback may
seem like just one more thing that
you “don’t have time” to add to your
busy day. Just remember that all of
the energy you are spending as a
manager/leader may be wasted, if you
don’t or can’t get your employees
all moving in the same direction.
Asking for feedback is one way to
learn about what you can do better
and also open up a dialog with your
employees that can get and keep them
on board.
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